Ok, in case some of you are wondering, things look set to change a bit for kamidisini in 2008. we’ll be going flying home on Monday, and while the Hasbern returns to Perth in early January, Ilhan and I will be here to usher in a new member of the family (insya Allah) and stay on till….whenever…haha
Thing is, WA is experiencing a major boom sending living expenses for a growing family almost impossible to cope on a measly self-funding international student budget. The rental crunch is especially bad, with the rental agents and landlords going *ka-ching* and grinning evil-ly all the way to the bank. A 2-bedroom villa/apartment/house which was probably $160/week just a few years ago is about $260/week now, and it just keeps getting worse. Factor in the costs of childcare, groceries, petrol blah blah blah, there you have it.
And lest some people start extolling the virtues and benefits of being permanent residents here, we are not. Yet. Insya Allah that will come through sometime next year, tapi itu cerita tahun depan. Even so, we don’t look at things through rose-tinted glasses. Nature’s nice, beaches are empty, space and pace is good, but survival comes first, no?
All our baby stuff are back home in SG anyway, so that’ll save us a lot. And you can’t beat good ‘ol mother, mother-in-law, nenek, nenek-in-law pampering that you’ll get…haha…:P
And so, Perth has been an amazing learning experience. We saw the good, the bad and the downright ugly. I am so going to miss my indon pengajian group, who (unlike some fellow countrypeople) sees me through thick and thin. Yang baik jadi teladan, buruk jadi sempadan dan memang pengalaman ini telah mendewasakan. We are grateful for the nice people who touched our lives in our way or another, and the intangibles which have made the 3 of us closer as a family.
And so these past week has been a mad flurry of sorting and packing – apa nak pack, apa kena jual (sebenarnya bab ni pun ada orang nak ambil kesempatan...manusia eh? ), apa nak buang, apa nak kasi Good Sammy, apa nak minta tolong jasa baik orang simpankan. and making a list of what we shall eat when we get home…hehehe!
I’ve so many stuff to update before we leave on Monday, but our ADSL connection has been down for almost a week (biasalah tu, try get anything to move fast around here). Primus said something might be wrong with our cable – kena gigit tikus kot – so right now we are relying on s.l.o.w dialup. Jadilah.
KFC and SGD$1.20 masala thosai….here we come!
good luck mate.
ReplyDeleteand i love that NON rose tinted eyes of yours. life is about reality eh.. and no country is utopia. the good and bad makes life -- alive.
and i am really waiting for ur trip up here. its been two years since i saw you.. well almost lah. gathering lagi!!!
gulp!
ReplyDeletenot a good news for me!..
Anyway..good luck and welcome back!!!
$1.20 masala thosai? kat ner...my place dah naik harga sey..$1.50
chet!
Cant wait for u n family to cum back home.. ;) n touching seh read dis blog of urs..
ReplyDeletebetul tu. tarak tempat perfect eh?
ReplyDeleteok...29-31 dec...bawak aku makan donut kat KL please.
ok. ko on... biar kita makan polok polok
ReplyDeletetu lah ayu...rental market tengah menggila. banyak students tersepit.
ReplyDeletealamak....itu $1.20 harga circa 2005. jangan2 kedai mamak i pun dah naik kot? chet!
orait shikin...itu thosai date on ah!
ReplyDeletekfc chicken yumm yummmm .. that we crave for too and sure must get if we go back sg .. but masala thosai sg kita dah tak heran .. the ones here are surprisingly nicer and many varieties
ReplyDeleteGood luck on the move and better get prepared for the hot hot sg weather .. get ready the rashes cream!
'fair dinkum'......see u soon! ;)
ReplyDeleteWelcome back. Hope to see you soon :)
ReplyDeleteCake! kat Sg pun ada donut yang halal lah! Munchy Donuts. They are sprouting everywhere. Kak Al and I had a good discussion on the virtues of Munchy Donuts just the other day. They sure do beat Dunkin Donuts.
ReplyDeleteAnd about the cost of living, kat sini pun dah mahal tau. So not only thosai but everything else inclusive of KFC pun mahal.
yeah ckg! munchy is sedap tau! especially their oreo donuts!
ReplyDeleteYup, totally agree about living expenses when you're not a PR....Even if you are, you'd need to consider the soaring interest rates... I'm not comlaining about food yet. Really, miss having my freedom to go about wherever I want to just by hopping onto trains and buses. nak tunggu hubby hantar pun subjected to availability! Bila agaknye nak PRISON BREAK!
ReplyDelete:-) what a life...heh.
ReplyDeletesee you soon babe... for makan and exchange notes on living outside sgp.:P
missed you!
so, you won't be there when i'm there lah?? *sob* *sob*.. macam tukar tempat pulak kita... anyway, barang2 apa u nak jual?? boleh i beli eh.. hehehe
ReplyDeletekhalidah.. didnt know you were expecting.. when is the due date?
ReplyDeleteUshering a new member of the family, Cake? *claps claps* Congrats!!! Welcome back to Spore! :)
ReplyDeletewelcome back soon!! :)
ReplyDeleteso u're coming back?? (by now u wld be home-sweet-home already)
ReplyDeletei guess rising costs of living is not only in downunder..it's EVERYWHERE. & as u sd,nothg beats the comfort & sayang fm ur loved ones back home..
WELCOME BACK!! :)
welcome back! good to know that we'll get to see the precious new one here. :)
ReplyDeleteLucky you sis...!!! Wish i was back home close to mum...but i know i will miss the islamic scene here in US..if i were to return as well. Here rentals are expensive too..especially m just a hsewife for now..stretching the dollar..till cant be stretched , haha
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