Tuesday, November 13, 2007

a new vice

these past month has been Submission Weeks for The Hasbern. taking non-exam modules this semester equals countless papers and endless assignments, hence the disappearance of yours truly as he uses both the laptop and desktop simultanerously. although i have absolutely no idea what his works are about, they're pretty interesting in that they make him sound like Horatio's IT-nerd-sidekick. stuff like 'computer forensics', 'network forensics'. i know this kakak doing her doctorate on 'accounting forensics'. i guess forensics is the in-thing now eh?

we've been doing quite a lot of stuff the past month, but hai....the photos semua bersepah-sepah all over - laptop, desktop, mobile phones, digital camera. i'll sort them out slowly.

my mak and brother were here for a good 12 days, and it's great to see loved ones from home. we had fun going down south to margaret river and doing the usual stuff around perth. my kitchen, especially my pantry and my fridge, has been 'spruced up' and inventoried as only a mother knows how.

 

i've also engaged in a new vice those precious minutes when the desktop is not in use. 4-letter word. Ebay. gawd...it's been so addictive, especially since the Oz ebay has maternity clothes with long sleeves and in real woman's sizes (and not those stick-insect sizes in singapore).the bids start as low as $0.99 and i give myself a maximum of about $15 (ok, ok, this one bedek, got a few went over the limit alreay) and i got my first item in a package today. wah so happy one.

for you sharp-eyed ones, yes you saw the word right. meet Ilhan's adik, akan datang 1 may 2008 insya Allah..

 
16 weeks now alhamdullillah. this blessing was totally unexpected, coming immediately after the miscarriage in July. thank you so much for your prayers and good wishes then - as you can see, wishes do come true :) 2009 will be a baby boom year in my family, with me, my dear sister, sister-in-law and 2 cousins all due to pop around march-april-may-june. ahaks!
 
big changes coming our way....watch this space!

39 comments:

  1. yeah, alhamdullillah. ilhan is getting an adik...congratulations to you...(sob, sob for me :(

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    alhamdullillah,congratulations!
    Am so happy for you...Hopefully it is a baby girl

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  3. :-) insha Allah mini Cake is on the way...
    see you soon!

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  4. so if its a girl, it would be ilhanie? ;p

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  5. yay cikgu congrats!so when i finally decide to visit,ill get babysit two kids instead of one in exchange for free lodging!haha.=)

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  6. its ironic that he studies about computer stuff but need the good old pen & paper to organize his work!! seriously, i would do that too!!! hehe!!!

    and YEAYYYY!!! another one coming out from the oven! congratz to the both of you!

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  7. CAKE!!! Missed your updates!!
    Eh, Alhamdulillah and Congrats!!!!!

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  8. FINAAAAAAAAAAAAALlllllllllllllly..........

    I'LL BE GETTING 2 MORE, I'LL BE GETTING 2 MORE!!!!

    HIP HIP Hoooooooooooraaaaaaay!!!!!!!!!

    two more add-ons to OUR FAMILY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! YEY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    O PLS O PLS COME BACK SOON!!!!!

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  9. woohoo! great news! congrats congrats congrats :D

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  10. *hugz*..jangan sob sob la...miracles happen :)

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  11. tricky one lina...tricky one....

    but i like the name of the first martyr in Islam :)

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  12. warning: don't come nov-feb ok...it's sizzling HOT. june-august is best ok!

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  13. fixa darling...itu note AKU (Minister of Home Affairs) yang buat..hee hee! and yeah i'm still in the good 'ol paper-pen mode. my palmtop is..a note on my palm, literally..haha

    this new bun is a totally unexpected surprise alright :) *ahem*

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  14. nora...been busy ebaying la..hee hee! and i wanted to get the whole raya season over with..hee hee..

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  15. nana..you guys will be very busy next year ay? farhan's birthday present dah sampai ke belum? suruh dia buka the frame and read the card ok. and watch out for nenek ilhan's coming in the post soon :) shhh...secwet!

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  16. HAHA!!! oh my! thats why lah i was wondering why sop calls himself BABA! selenge fixa! such a busy queenbee eh! taking care of two boys' affair...hopefully u'll have another girl to help u around the house in future *wink*

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    Alhamdulillah.........can't wait to hear more abt your baby journey. i guess i feel a little nostalgic abt this subject. i hope everything goes well for u, baby, abg ilhan n baby's ayah.....InsyAllah..

    take good care of yourself.......*hugs*

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  18. alaaaaaaaah.. i have that in mind hehe
    remember the KL trip to ABIM/ISTAC ten years ago and we met the chinese girl of that name? since then I have been in love with that name :))

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  19. alhamdulillah, such wonderful news! insya- allah akan dikurniakan rezeki yg melimpah ruah for you n family, congrats!

    yeay, ilhan nak jadi abang!

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  20. congrats sis...my bday is on 2nd may...heee !!! Just a day after yr delivery...Yeay to May babies =)

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  21. hey!!! congratulations!! so.. delivering in Perth ke? Have you been paying any fees for your check-ups?? A friend didn't pay a penny until delivery!

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  22. hana...tu dia mesti PR/citizen...medicare cover. kita ni alahai...panjang cerita nanti i email you ok :P

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  23. alhamdulillah! alf mabrouk on ur pregnancy! :)

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  24. Congratulations!!! Yaaayyy bestnya Ilhan gonna be an abang soon and I think he'll be such a sweet loving one too..

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  25. haa! i must hv missed reading this entry of urs. congrats cake and hubby =))

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  26. alhamdulillah, congrats, cake! i'm very happy for you! my bub's due in july - kalau tinggal sama state, our bubs can be playmates! hehehe... :)

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  27. Ooooh....I think I missed out this entry....I find the pre-natal care here is a huge contrast to that in Singapore. I notice me frens here go to public hospitals for their check-ups, no personal gynaes. Think it's because of the Medicare use. Only when the docs anticipate imminent complications, they'd make you scout for a specialist (gynae la tu). I have found a Singaporean gynae here whom I'm yet to contact for my post-op follow-ups.

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  28. practically everything here is free, pre-natal(blood test, scan, everything) -> delivery(hospital stay, etc) -> post-natal. All free for PRs and citizens(medicare & centrelink)! All checkups can be done at your own GP/gynae or the womens' hospitals will recommend Shared-care facilities (usually run by gynae/midwives - it's also free) affiliated with them. If you have your own gynae, and if they have bulk-billing it is also free. Hospitals (Mercy or Royal Women's Hospital) will provide the shared care facilities nearest to or in your suburb. So you got the option to be 'kiasu' and visit your gp/gynae often or 'rileks one corner' and visit ur assigned shared carer/hospital --> you have the choice and freedom, ie no stress!

    On top of that, once the baby is born there is a one time baby bonus of AU5000 or 6000. Furthermore there will be welfare support (child/parent assistance)- abt 240-350 per fortnight per child. If you or your husband is on leave (paternity/maternity), you'll get the full assistance from Centrelink.

    What you get are Child Assistance(for each child)+Parenting Assistance+Allowance+Renting Assistance(if you are renting) --> if you or your wife is working then it will be based on minimum salary (wc is about 35k per year to get full payments) otherwise the assistance will be calculated according to salary percentage. If you send your children to child care, there will be further assistance and rebates.

    That is why you see lots of people here have 'tonnes of children', furthermore with the new Rudd government it will be Pro Family --> ie more $$ support.

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  29. whoa seriously? 5-6K!!!?
    And fornightly welfare support??
    waaaaahhhh this is getting me thinkin now...mmm

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  30. But if you had read the latest parliamentary debates, they want to raise the tax for couples with more kids. Some people do take advantage of this whole welfare benefits. My fren's neighbour, this old Aussie couple, adopted 5 little kids. They get the grant from Centrelink but misuse the &&& for worthless expenditures like boozing and puffs.

    I have read that the baby bonus is subjected to the working status of the mom. You work, you get less. Housewives tend to benefit more. Free daycare and all. You have to pay a certain % if you're working. Strange, why would housewives need daycare? Working moms need it more!

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  31. yeah, standard for all babies and kids. But once they are in school, you get much lesser and no more parenting allowance. We got 2 non-school going kids and still got some allowance even both of us have salaries(+ renting assistance). Alhamdulillah, rezki Allah beri - we never quite knew all this welfare thingy before we become PR. we just want the pro family lifestyle. ;-)

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  32. you have to take advantage, because we pay so much tax. ;-)

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  33. do they pay you to be their spokesperson hasbi? info overload there.

    you make it all seem so fine and dandy. baguslah you PR. not everything's as marvellous as they seem :) i've gotten past that honeymoon stage.

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  34. of course lah diaorang bayar, we are the Malay representatives for the area ;-P This is because there is an increase of 45% in the past 2 years in the number of Malays (Singapore, Indon and Malaysia PR/Citizen) who stays in this Northern suburb of Victoria. And generally we are still short of Professional Malays as the total population of Professional Malays is only 0.2%. :-)

    Sorry eh kalau teroverload. Thousand of apologies.

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  35. hmmmm.... still short of Professional Malays eh?

    Isn't it the same here as well in Sunny Stressapura?

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  36. terkeluar-ring again hasbi. 3 strikes and you're out.

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  37. Kua Kua Kua! kak AAAAALLL! You're so farneee! Macam mane tak short of Prof Malays do Sunny Stressapura...dulu Singapura di langgar todak, sekarang kena sambar petir! Power To The People!

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